In the world of the internet, I’ve learned so much — from silly slang to profound ideas that keep me pondering until three in the morning. One of my favorites is the Orange Peel Theory. It suggests that someone who truly cares about you will perform small acts of service, even if you can do them yourself. This theory feels so gentle, emphasizing that love is a touch of tenderness.
You might not notice it at first, but after returning from a date, your mind will replay those moments like a broken tape. That’s when you realize that every touch, gesture, and gaze from your lover is filled with tenderness. It’s like watching them in the orange glow of sunset, their head thrown back in laughter, lost in your own bubble and just in that moment, you understand that such gentle love exists, somewhere in between all the chaos of life.
Or you might find it during a random phone conversation, where you both share your opinions on various topics. When the discussion turns deeper, and you find yourself typing out long paragraphs about your thoughts, you realize that this exchange of vulnerability is worth everything. Their replies, filled with the same energy and thoughtfulness, make falling in love seem so effortless. It feels like blowing on a dandelion and watching the seeds linger in the air, just like how love lingers in your heart.
It’s refreshing to know that after fighting for so long, people deserve this kind of gentle love. They can let their guards down, allowing their partner to share their burdens and carry their hearts with care. It’s fascinating how one person can hold your entire heart, making you believe you can hold the world with just your hands — because they are your world, your person.
That’s the moment you realize you would peel oranges for them. Even though they can do it themselves, you’re willing to do it out of love. You choose the best-looking orange, peel it with care, and remove the white part because you know they prefer it that way — some find it bitter. It’s a bit of a hassle, but worth it when you love someone with every atom of your being. The whole process of peeling the orange is filled with thoughts of your person, each piece peeled with love, until all that’s left is an overwhelming sense of love in your heart.
“Would you like another one?” Will you stay longer with me?
“You would peel them for me?” Would you love me till the end?
“For as long as I can.” I’ll love you until I no longer can.
And in those moments, love feels tender and everlasting.
